{"id":19650,"date":"2026-09-17T07:15:50","date_gmt":"2026-09-17T05:15:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.iamslip.com\/?p=19650"},"modified":"2026-09-17T07:17:57","modified_gmt":"2026-09-17T05:17:57","slug":"when-we-were-five","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.iamslip.com\/?p=19650","title":{"rendered":"When We Were Five"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><a href=\"https:\/\/www.iamslip.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/nostalgia_whenwewere5.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-19652 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.iamslip.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/nostalgia_whenwewere5-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.iamslip.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/nostalgia_whenwewere5-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.iamslip.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/nostalgia_whenwewere5-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.iamslip.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/nostalgia_whenwewere5-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.iamslip.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/nostalgia_whenwewere5-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.iamslip.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/nostalgia_whenwewere5-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.iamslip.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/nostalgia_whenwewere5-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.iamslip.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/nostalgia_whenwewere5.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/h2>\n<div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<div>\n<article class=\"text-token-text-primary w-full focus:outline-none [--shadow-height:45px] has-data-writing-block:pointer-events-none has-data-writing-block:-mt-(--shadow-height) has-data-writing-block:pt-(--shadow-height) [&amp;:has([data-writing-block])&gt;*]:pointer-events-auto scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]\" dir=\"auto\" tabindex=\"-1\" data-turn-id=\"request-69270da4-2320-832f-8dca-c0c6bf7601f6-0\" data-testid=\"conversation-turn-132\" data-scroll-anchor=\"true\" data-turn=\"assistant\">\n<div class=\"text-base my-auto mx-auto pb-10 [--thread-content-margin:--spacing(4)] @w-sm\/main:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(6)] @w-lg\/main:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(16)] px-(--thread-content-margin)\">\n<div class=\"[--thread-content-max-width:40rem] @w-lg\/main:[--thread-content-max-width:48rem] mx-auto max-w-(--thread-content-max-width) flex-1 group\/turn-messages focus-visible:outline-hidden relative flex w-full min-w-0 flex-col agent-turn\" tabindex=\"-1\">\n<div class=\"flex max-w-full flex-col grow\">\n<div class=\"min-h-8 text-message relative flex w-full flex-col items-end gap-2 text-start break-words whitespace-normal [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-1\" dir=\"auto\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"7b637488-f101-4475-92e5-13b65f138308\" data-message-model-slug=\"gpt-5-2\">\n<div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 empty:hidden first:pt-[1px]\">\n<div class=\"markdown prose dark:prose-invert w-full wrap-break-word dark markdown-new-styling\">\n<div class=\"flex max-w-full flex-col gap-4 grow\">\n<div class=\"min-h-8 text-message relative flex w-full flex-col items-end gap-2 text-start break-words whitespace-normal outline-none keyboard-focused:focus-ring [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-1\" dir=\"auto\" tabindex=\"0\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"705ee744-0737-48b5-8b20-b9fae512df33\" data-message-model-slug=\"gpt-5-3\" data-turn-start-message=\"true\">\n<div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 empty:hidden\">\n<div class=\"markdown prose dark:prose-invert w-full wrap-break-word dark markdown-new-styling\">\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\">When We Were Five<\/h2>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Il y a un \u00e2ge o\u00f9 il suffisait d&rsquo;un ballon et d&rsquo;un panier sans filet pour que tout le monde soit l\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Pas besoin de planifier trois semaines \u00e0 l&rsquo;avance, de v\u00e9rifier les agendas, de cr\u00e9er un sondage sur un groupe WhatsApp que la moiti\u00e9 n&rsquo;ouvre plus. On se donnait rendez-vous le dimanche matin, on enfilait des chasubles qui avaient connu des g\u00e9n\u00e9rations de sueur, et on jouait. Mal, souvent. Ensemble, toujours.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Ce qui dispara\u00eet avec l&rsquo;\u00e2ge, ce n&rsquo;est pas l&rsquo;envie. C&rsquo;est la disponibilit\u00e9 collective. Les vies s&rsquo;organisent, se sp\u00e9cialisent, s&rsquo;\u00e9loignent g\u00e9ographiquement. Les enfants, les horaires, les week-ends charg\u00e9s, les priorit\u00e9s qui se r\u00e9\u00e9crivent sans qu&rsquo;on l&rsquo;ait vraiment d\u00e9cid\u00e9. Le groupe de cinq devient quatre, puis trois, puis un message sans r\u00e9ponse dans un fil de conversation qui s&rsquo;appelle encore \u00ab\u00a0Les Gars\u00a0\u00bb ou \u00ab\u00a0Basket du dimanche\u00a0\u00bb et qu&rsquo;on n&rsquo;ose pas quitter parce que \u00e7a voudrait dire admettre quelque chose.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">La solitude amicale est une des formes les plus silencieuses de la vie adulte. Elle n&rsquo;arrive pas d&rsquo;un coup. Elle s&rsquo;installe progressivement, par accumulation de dimanches o\u00f9 personne n&rsquo;a pu.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>On ne perd pas ses amis. On perd juste le dimanche matin o\u00f9 on se retrouvait tous.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">#slip #collagedigital #lyon #photoshop #digital #editorialcollage #basketball #nostalgie #amiti\u00e9 #solitude #sport #viAdulte #souvenir #iamslip #slipart<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When We Were Five Il y a un \u00e2ge o\u00f9 il suffisait d&rsquo;un ballon et d&rsquo;un panier sans filet pour que tout le monde soit l\u00e0. Pas besoin de planifier trois semaines \u00e0 l&rsquo;avance, de v\u00e9rifier les agendas, de cr\u00e9er un sondage sur un groupe WhatsApp que la moiti\u00e9 n&rsquo;ouvre plus. 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